Words to Use to Resolve Conflict
Lynn and I have created a few simple phrases that help to resolve conflict. Phrases that can reduce power struggles and communicate your willingness to listen.
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Mary Sheedy Kurcinka Ed.D and Lynn Jessen MA
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